50 books that do what politicians don't: Teach kids to be moral

It's been a rough couple of weeks in America.

Regardless of where you fall on the political spectrum, chances are good that you viewed the storming of the capitol Jan. 6 as pretty f'ed up. For many parents, the violent images demanded yet another hard conversation with their children — many of whom are still learning what it means to be human, what it means to be patriotic, what it means to be good.

Indeed, setting kids on a moral path can feel challenging when our values don't seem to be reflected in the world around us.

Of course, this is not the first time people have made extraordinarily bad decisions for themselves, nor is it the first time kids have had to process violence and hate. And it's certainly not the first time parents have had to look past political carnage to teach children about friendship, honesty, forgiveness, courage, compassion, peace, tolerance, hope, equality, love, justice and the Golden Rule.

And, luckily for us, we've got backup: Children's literature.

Seriously, most of what we want to teach our kids — what we need to teach our kids — is in picture books. I mean, sure, there are plenty of breezy kids' books written just for the fun of it. (Totally okay.) And there are plenty of self-righteous books that push lessons down our throats while treating kids like idiots. (Not okay.)

But when you hit on really good picture book — one that's both sweet and funny, down-to-earth and masterful — it makes for an almost visceral experience, filling our hearts with peace and reminding our kids (and us, frankly) that everything's going to be okay if we put kindness first.

If you are feeling a need to amp up the moral lessons in your house, here are 50 books that made my job in that regard not just easy, but an absolute pleasure. Hopefully they'll do the same for you.

A Bargain for Francis

Russell Hoban / Lillian Hoban

Explores themes of friendship, honesty,

forgiveness and materialism.

Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day Judith Voirst / Ray Cruz

Bad things happen; you’ll live through it. (And yes, that’s a picture of my childhood copy.)

An Awesome Book Dallas Clayton

Encourages kids to dream, dream often and dream BIG. And the illustrations are, well, awesome.

The Bear Who Wanted to Be a Bear Jörg Steiner / Jörg Miller

About environmental protection, the pursuit of self and feeling good in your own skin.

Black Beauty Sharon Lerner / Susan Jeffers

About kindness, compassion, animal rights and helping the less fortunate.

Bridget and the Muttonheads Pija Lindenbaum / Kjersti Board

Out of Sweden, and hilarious, this one tackles loneliness, confidence and finding joy in helping others.

Bully Patricia Polacco

Friendship, conformity and the

courage to do what's right.

Can I Play Too? Mo Willems

Like all Mo Willems, this one is a-freaking-dorable. Themes of friendship, creativity and problem-solving.

Duck at the Door Jackie Urbanovic

About love, compassion and the importance of self-expression. I’m crazy about this book.

Eloise Kay Thompson

This girl oozes independence and confidence. If you don’t love Eloise, you’re probably fascist.

The Story of Ferdinand

by Munro Leaf

A classic, this one's about conformity, the ethical treatment of animals and the value of peace.

Frog and Toad Are Friends Arnold Lobel

Honestly, any and all of the Frog and Toad books should go on this list. The moral lessons abound.

George and Martha James Marshall

One of the best books about true, limitless friendship that I’ve ever read. And so. damn. funny.

The Golden Rule Ilene Cooper / Gabe Swiatkowska

The ethic of reciprocity — humanity’s moral gold standard — is not a religious things. It's a human thing.

The Grandmother Fish Jonathon Tweet / Karen Lews

A brand-new favorite and a superb introduction to evolution.

Green Eggs and Ham Dr. Seuss

If you don’t know the lesson of this one, you’ve been living  in a box… or on a fox… or in a boat…

Have You Filled a Bucket Today? Carol McCloud / David Messing

Be a bucket filler, not a bucket dumper. Ethically speaking, you can’t do much better.

Henry’s Freedom Box Ellen Levine / Kadir Nelson

A story of suffering, courage, redemption and, ultimately, conquering the evil known as slavery. Beautiful.

The Hole Øyvind Torseter

About the imperfect goal of trying to rid one’s life of imperfections.

How To Be a Feminist (For Little Girls & Boys)

by Maxine Russell

Okay, but you knew this was going to be on the list.

Sets right some misperceptions about feminism.

How to Behave and Why Munro Leaf

Because sometimes you just want to spell it out.